Fill in the gaps...

Life is simple, life is beautiful.
Life is those gaps in between our work, goals, aspirations, friends, family, moods, emotions, mind and heart.

Relationship is filling those gaps in company of someone you like.
Relationship is not depending, burdening, fulfilling, naming, labeling etc..etc. But it is about completing your life.
It is about dancing when happy and hugging when sad.
It is about massaging when tired and forgetting about the whole world for a while. It is about sleeping without dreams.
It is about listening without trying to make sense or judge.
It is about understanding each other without words. And even if we don’t, it is fine. Coz it is not about understanding, it is about caring. Caressing is far more fulfilling than saying “I love you” a million times.
It is about giving without expecting.
It is not about showing but about feeling.
It is about that one look that can bring tears and smile at the same time.
It is about kissing like it is your first kiss and making love like you are doing it for the last time in this life.
It is neither about past, nor future. It is about this one moment when we are together. It is about you and me, and no one else.

Life is simple, life is beautiful and it feels so complete already!!!



“Happiness is real only when shared” – Christopher Macendless (aka Alexander Supertramp) from INTO THE WILD

Abstract

Well, I feel like writing after so many days and I feel like writing so much.... But as usual, I would try and truncate it as much as I can... so, here we go -

"There is a very fine line dividing a hard worker from a fool. It is the same line that divides a smart worker from a lazy ass!!!"

FUTURE INDIA

I am so happy after looking at the election results... It shows that people of India cant be fooled anymore by some loud voices, false accusations, religious hatred etc etc... Wise people have chosen progress over politics, nationalism over religion and harmony over hatred... and those who find themselves supporting the minority party after the result, are fools and need to look a litl deeper within... because only fools are in minority, always!!!

Today, I remember and want to share the article I wrote before 2004 election (when BJP was in power and India Shining campaign was in full form), about Rahul Gandhi being introduced in the main stream politics by Congress....
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Read through the below article (especially the comments on the article) and then think about it before reading my comments below…

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/573307.cms

What do you say? This is what I have to say…

I have read the article published on 23rd March about Rahul Gandhi joining active politics and its effect on congress. Unfortunately, I have also read comments of people on the topic. I must say I was thoroughly disappointed reading them. I thought times site is a place for intellectuals to interact but I was not able to find even the slightest hint of “intellect” anywhere in that discussion. Infect, it was full of emotions and a lot of crap. I always thought that democracy is not about being rigid but it is about being flexible, it is about freedom. So what, if Rahul is son of Rajivji or grandson of Indiraji? Does this anyway mean that he cannot enter politics? Is politics only reserved for Advanis and Laloos and their sons (or daughters) and grandsons?

Just look at Rahul’s experience (not just in politics but in life). He is well learned, he is young, he has seen the world, he has been a financial consultant and he is an entrepreneur successfully running an IT venture. And above all, he has seen Indian politics (and upcoming of India) better and closer then anyone else (through his father’s eyes – one of the greatest visionaries of India).

I think we (the next generation of India) need to come out of the layer created by BJP (using various gimmicks like DYNASTY POLITICS, PSHEUDO-SECULARISM, HINDUTVA and now using INDIA SHINING). We need to use our own intellect and need to back these younger people like Rahul, Sachin or Navin!

Instead, what are we talking about? INDIA SHINING? Do you really believe in it? What about US? It took them more then two centuries after their independence to use the first phone or to travel in plane or to have light in their homes. Does that mean, whatever they have done before (having telephone) was of no use? It took them more then 100 presidents and governments (both democrats and republicans - yes, all are called congressmen when they are elected) to reach where they are now. And we people expect some magic by some JIN (like BJP) to give us all that in 5 years? Do you really believe in it?

Lets talk about HINDUTVA? Do we really want another GUJARAT to happen allover INDIA? I am a Hindu and a Gujarati and I am ashamed of what happened there and I can never forgive who so ever was behind it. And Secularism, democracy is always based on secularism. Congress has been and it still is a secular party. Today if BJP is talking about secularism, it is just because of votes and nothing else. (You only decide who is psheudo-secular?) They are not dependable at all. Even today, no one knows what happened to the money given by common men for the RAM MANDIR. Can anyone tell me? And what leaders are we talking about? Vajpayeeji (75+) or Advaniji (70+ just waiting for Vajpayeeji to retire so he can be the next PM). What leaders? And what kind of vision can they have for India after 10 years when they are not sure of their own life after 10 years?

I am not saying that congress is “DUDH KA DHULA”. But by promoting Rahul, or Rajesh Pilot’s son or Madhavrao Scindhia’s son, they have shown intent to change. Look at their manifesto, it suggests that they are open to change, that they have learned from their mistakes and they are futuristic.

So friends, please think about it. And forget about what is Congress’s or BJP’s vision for India after 10 years. Have your own vision about where would you like India to be after 10 years and see (before casting your precious vote) who can really fulfill that. If you feel no one is capable, then start doing something on your own. Let us come together to build our own India rather then relying on someone else to do it for us. Lets not blame others, let us do something on our own. Lets GO! Lets do IT!


- a 25 year young citizen of India (not a congressee not BJPin or not even a politician)

Clutter vs. Cleanliness

My mind is so cluttered today that triggered this thought that may be I can give my blog a little clean look.

Four Stages of Human Mind

Every single human mind is functioning at one of the following four stages...

1. Innocent

2. Logical / Rational

3. Philosophical / Spiritual

4. Free / Universal

(in order of progression)

Future perfect!!!

The other day, I went to my cousin's office and there was his friend, an expert in astrology, looking at his "kundali" and telling him about his life, past, present and future.... I must admit, he knew his subject well and he knew what he was saying... he was good.

So, I kind of got curious and asked him to make my "kundali" and tell me something about me too (and we dont know eachother, we met for the first time)... what he said is reproduced as it is....

"You are born in the wrong era my friend, this is Kalyug, you missed Satyug :)" - lolz, i think exactly the same :))))

"Your Kundli is very complex, I will need lot of time to study it properly coz if all "grahas" work in your favor, it can make you the king of this world but if they dont, you are ruined!!!" - hmmm, scary!!!!!

"This is the worst phase of your life right now, especially till sep 09" - hmm, i thought, if this is the worst period then how would the best period of my life be like??? :)

"But even after sep 09, you will struggle in life... best period of your life is after 18 years" - hmmmmmmmmm...... ohhhhhhhhh..... irony of life :)

I believe him fully and I am ready for my Future Perfect.

Know me...

March 17, 2009 – 6:30 PM

1. Last beverage→ Water
2. Last phone call→ Jay sir
3. Last text message→ Nitesh
5. Last time you cried→ Always less than a month
HAVE YOU EVER:
6. Dated someone twice → Yes
7. Been cheated on? → I don’t know, I don’t care.
8. Kissed someone & regretted it? → Never
9. Lost someone special?→ Yes
10. Been depressed?→ Check my blog
11. Been in love? → Yes, I think…
LIST THREE FAVORITE COLORS:
12. Blue
13. Black
14. White
THIS YEAR HAVE YOU:
15. Made new friends→ Yes, so many
16. Fallen out of love → Did not fell in…
17. Laughed until you cried → No
18. Met someone who changed you→ Yes
19. Found out who your true friends were→ Yes
20. Found out someone was talking about you→ Yes
TRUTH:
21. How many kids do you want to have→ I don’t see any future here…
22. Do you have any pets → Only stray dogs and cats, for few minutes
23. Do you want to change your name→ I want to make my name
24. What did you do for your last birthday→ Cut a dougnut with a ruler
25. What time did you wake up today → 8:11 AM
26. What were you doing at midnight last night→ Chatting
27. Name something you CANNOT wait for → a phone call I am expecting
28. Last time you saw your father→ Few months back
29. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life → I wish, I can be as innocent as a child
30. What are you listening to right now → Mixed sound of Birds and Traffic
31. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom → Yes, more than one Toms
32. What's getting on your nerves right now? → My eyes
33. Whats your real name → ___________
34. Zodiac sign → Virgo
35. Male or female→ Male
36. Elementary→ Nutan
37. High school → Virani
38. Hair color → Black & some white
39. Long or short → Medium
40. Height → 5’ 7”
41. Do you have a crush on someone? → Yaaaa
42. What do you like about yourself? → I genuinly don’t like anyone to be unhappy
43. Piercings → No
44. Tattoos → Coming soon…
45. Righty or lefty → Righty
FIRSTS :
46. First surgery-> None
47. First piercing → NA
48. First best friend → Myself
49. First sport you joined → Soccer
RIGHT NOW:
50. Eating → Nothing
51. Drinking →Nothing
52. I'm about to → Reveal few more things about myself
53. Listening to → Nothing
54. Waiting for → Freedom or Love, whatever comes first
YOUR FUTURE :
55. Want kids?--> May adopt
56. Want to get married? -> Everyone should make this mistake only once, I did long ago
57. Careers in mind? -> Artists dont build careers
WHICH IS BETTER WITH THE OPPOSITE ?
58. Lips or eyes → Eyes
59. Hugs or kisses → Hugs
60. Shorter or taller → Taller
61. Older or Younger → Older
62. Romantic or spontaneous → Romantic
63. Nice stomach or nice arms → Nice Stomach
64. Tattoos or piercings— Both
65. Sensitive or loud → Sensitive
66. Hook-up or relationship → Companionship
67. Trouble maker or hesitant→ who me?
HAVE YOU EVER :
68. Kissed a stranger → No
69. Stayed up til 5am→ So many times
70. Lost glasses/contacts → Yes once, and don’t wear after that
71. On first date → Bike ride to a river bank, lots of talking, holding hands, dinner and a kiss
72. Broken someone's heart → Yes
73. Had your own heart broken → What you give, comes back
74. Been arrested → Almost
75. Turned someone down --> Yes
76. Cried when someone died → No
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
77. Yourself → Yes
78. Miracles → No
79. Love at first sight → No
80. Heaven → No
81. Santa Claus → No
82. Kissing on the first date → Its not mandatory, it just happens
83. Angels → No
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
84. Is there one person you want to be with right now? → Yes
85. Had more than one girlfriend at one time? → I don’t understand the concept of Girlfriend
86. Do you believe it’s possible to remain faithful forever?→ It is very much possible to remain faithful at any given point of time
87. What's the one thing you cannot live without?→ Companionship
88. One thing that most people don’t know about you → That I can kill someone, if need be!

Dating

Every day is a new date, isnt it!!! :)

Expectations

Expectation is the mother of all depressions!

You keep expecting something to happen, but it doesnt... The moment you stop expecting, it does!!!

Who am I?

I am an experience... live me!

The deeper you go the better you enjoy and more you cherish :)